**Due to emergencies in life and some other reasons today many couples have started giving importance to one child only a single child. They have started to understand that your child can be made a successful human being by raising them better. But raising an only child can be a bit challenging. The reason is that only children want to be seen more. They can be stubborn and also a victim of loneliness, so parents need to pay more attention to them. Children are innocent. They cannot differentiate between good and bad. If you repeatedly tell your only child that he is your everything, then you can do anything for him. Then the Child's expectation of self-importance will increase continuously and he will become stubble. Then don't go too far with yourself. There will be pressure to convince things, so do not make him feel given more importance. single child feels lonely due to not having any siblings seen as the brothers and sisters of others. He also feels the need for brothers and sisters in his mind. In such a situation, you would have identified with him as a friend. She has to be made to realize that she is not a sister or brother, So what if she has her parents? By doing this, the feeling of loneliness ends in the child's mind.
Of course, you are employed, but in your busy routine make sure to take out enough time for your child. Talk about her problems, troubles, proteins, and interests. Have breakfast with him in share everything. Due to this, he will not feel lonely. He will start forgetting you. The child should not be alone in this. Make social connections from childhood. Inspire him to meet and interact with nice people around him. The child gets strength by having contact with relatives. The children who have brothers and sisters understand the importance of the relationship a lot but understand the lesser value of the only child. If he is not made to realize it, in such a situation it is important that you tell the origin of the relationship to the single child. Only then he will know the value of every relationship. Nowadays, the full emphasis of the parents remains only on the education of the child. Studies are important but equally important or other creative activities such as music. To motivate them to participate in sports activities involving meditation. If you do not allow the only child to do any work and make him dependent on servants even for small tasks, then believe me, you are not raising your children properly. It will become a habit to depend on others for his every work. Now in the future, he himself will not be able to do any work. That's why it is necessary to make me lighten from small to big. This service will make you self-reliant and will create a different identity.
** Teenage is the age when your child steps on the threshold of puberty. Good habits adopted at this age help and improve the personality of the child in the long run. Hey, the physical and mental health of teenage children is good. Whose parents teach them about cleanliness? Well, that children usually do not pay attention to. Any advice and suggestions of elders in pay. That's why it is necessary to explain it to them in an interesting way. Explain the importance of hygiene to the child. Talk honestly about their routine. They were asked to follow the habits of cleaners. Then ask them how they feel about their current habits. Encourage them to listen to their thoughts so that they can tell you their point of view with complete honesty. Teenage Nor will they have to show anything new. children often learn from their parents. So when it comes to hygiene, set a good example of a good example in front of the children. If you want your child to develop healthy habits, then set a good example in front of him. If you ask him to brush his teeth twice a day, then you will also have to brush your teeth twice more for 2 days. If children see you washing your hands before eating everything, they will do the same and you will not have to learn the need to learn separately with them.
Teach your teen good skin care habits as well, like cleaning the face twice a day, not touching the face too much, and cleaning the skin properly while taking a bath EC. Tell him that the skin should be dried completely after the bath. Otherwise, there is a fear of skin and fiction. It is a matter of what kind of skin care product should be used for the skin. You can teach her. Explain the benefits of daily exercise to the teenage child. Daily exercise is not only good for physical health, but it is. Can also improve hygiene to remove germs from the body. Therefore, encourage your teenage child to participate in any kind of physical activity. he can dance for this. One can join in an aerobics class or play some outdoor game which will make their body strong and powerful. He will not fall ill easily. Along with getting enough sleep and physical and mental health, it is also very important for hygiene. The body produces less sweat and less oil while sleeping, which can help prevent other causing acne. That's why I asked our children to get enough sleep daily and stay away from stress. If the child is tense, ask him the reason for the tension and remove the tension by being a friend. If the child is under stress, he will not get enough sleep. He will get sick. That's why it should be stress-free.
** Many children are naturally closed and stay away from the outside world. Many children consider mobile laptops as their world and do not even know the names of their neighbors. He feels that he is social with the whole world through Mobile. This is a challenge for parents when children cannot make friends or have difficulty being social. Along with studies and sports, it is also necessary to give social value to the children. If he remains quietly alone, his development may be stunted, A meeting that inspires. In spice courage and gives a chance to new things. That's why it is important for children to understand that there is a world outside the mobile as well, which is an important part of life. Many children are already social. He likes meeting people. Many children go to the room as soon as relatives come to the house. In such a situation, parents should involve them in social activities like asking them to bring a glass of water or teaching them to greet elders so that they know what is going on with them. By being social, children are able to express themselves freely, due to which the people around them are always happy with them.
Many children do not open up much to anyone other than parents or close people. In such a situation, he remains an introvert and cannot connect with the outside world. In today's time, it is very important for children to have activities and the Internet. That's why parents should teach children to talk. Their confidence will increase, and loneliness will go away. Teach kids to open up with other people about making milk. This motivates them to get involved in culture. Religious and recreational activities. Children's mind is complete and simple too, but many children do not have the nature of sharing and caring. In such a situation, the parents should teach them to help from among friends. There will be a possibility of cooperation in the child in helping a friend in bad times. Tell children inspirational stories of friendship.
there is a special quality inside every child that is his strength. So do not force anything on the children. Realizing his talent, what is the strength of the child? Parents move ahead knowing the qualities of the child. But if he does not ask questions then the development will stop. That's why parents should teach children to question. This will generate curiosity in them, will be able to know such things, will be able to participate in the competition first, become social apart from the parents, take them out at any time and the children sit with them. Being social, the children can learn by watching them.
** It is the dream of every parent to see their child ahead. Many times children are mentally tortured in the process of progress. There are some mistakes in parenting that can affect the mental health of children. It not only affects the minds of the children but also harms their physical fitness. Fulfilling the hobbies of children, and taking care of their needs as much as it is necessary. Mental peace is more important than knowing how you are. Giving mental peace to your children or teaching your children to learn is very important. Hey, many families, children, small successors. Overlooked, which is a small success for the parents, is a big deal for the children. In such a situation when they do not get encouragement then their confidence is a little less. That's why it is necessary to motivate them whenever they get a chance. This will make the child better. It is common for parents to always restrain and curb. Now the question arises how many invents should be curved? Some parents are so strict with their children that they refuse everything they say. If you deny everything to them, then the child will not share anything with you. Maybe he starts hiding things. Apart from this, learning something will also take a toll. That's why first listen to the Child's point of view and then take a decision. For some reason, and even if you are not saying anything, explain it to him.
It is common to have quarrels in the family, especially between husband and wife. But why? Which often happens? If this happens, then the tender hearts of the children get hurt a lot. Sometimes children go into depression for the mental piece of children. It is necessary that the atmosphere of the house is also peaceful. That's why avoid fighting in front of him. Nowadays, children face many kinds of problems in schools. Many a time when someone makes an offering to the children, they become very sad. Many times shy away from going to school and tuition. That is why it is important to know their mood and we talked about mental peace. Children learn what they see. That's why it is necessary that you yourself should follow some rules for monthly peace and include the habit of daily pranayama, meditation, and yoga in your life. With this, the child will also see him and come close to him. Nowadays mobile laptop customers are commonly children in such a situation it is necessary to keep an eye on their screen, timing, and content.
** English Cocker DH Lawrence has some advice on parenting. Do not put the burden of your love on the children. If you control your children more or are overprotective of them, keep them tied with the threat of love. Due to this, they do not come to buy you but go away. You must have heard about helicopter parents. What a little weird, but it means a lot. The term helicopter parenting was coined by doctor Heinz Gino in the book Parents and Teenagers. This means when the parents hour like a helicopter over, the kids head all the time. Most of the parents want their control over every decision of their children. They feel that in this way they are fulfilling their responsibility towards the child and saving them from the coming sorrow. Parent experts call it over parenting which makes children irresponsible for themselves. There are many types of helicopter parents 2 high helicopter parents search for jobs such as painting kids and preparing their resumes themselves. Others are low-altitude helicopters. They keep interfering more in the lives of children. Guerrilla war fair helicopter Parents like to do everything themselves for the kids. He also wants to go for an interview himself.
Helicopter parents don't want their children to make the decisions due to which they have got success in life difficulties, and challenges, so they try to keep children away from them. They want to cover the shortcomings and weaknesses of children with the security chest and do not give them a chance to understand themselves throughout their lives. Because of helicopter parents, children lack self-regulation. They are afraid of responsibilities and are left behind only by the management. Search children are also victims of mental stress. They lack self-confidence because their parents make all the decisions. In such a situation, children are not able to see the challenges of life, every defeat, victory, and the color of reality. They don't have the courage to go ahead and do something themselves. In such a situation, children mostly grow up under the shadow of their parents. They do not have much interaction with social friends and outsiders. In such a situation, different feelings do not arise in them. Help children where they are needed. Give them a chance to figure things out on their own. Guide them, not leave them by their hand for the rest of their lives. Let their children make their own decisions so that they can face difficulties. Give them freedom and take care of their personal life.
** who discuss the class activities of children in the parent-teacher meeting held in schools almost every month. Sometimes become more cautious than necessary about their studies or activities. Many times they start counting the faults of the child or they start reprimanding them. Apart from this, some parents raise their children to increase their enthusiasm. Which increases the confidence of the children and makes them negligent in their studies. In fact, parents need to understand that the child learns life lessons from his teachers at school and parents at home and parents play an important role in character building. Teachers and parents can be overburdened. teacher, scold your child for coming in front of everyone at any time in the meeting. Your teacher is like this. Scolding in front of friends can reduce his confidence. Due to such fear, he will not discuss anything in the future. This will your relationship with your child will be damaged. If you are angry with the child then keep your anger under control. Never scolded a hit his teacher. In front of him. Over your anger, come home and explain to wear politely. This will make a good impression on him.
Don't analyze your children's mistakes through parent-teacher meetings. Repeating the same mistakes one by one will reduce his confidence and he will feel hesitant to speak in front of anyone. If you are worried about your child's result then never express your hanger because by doing this you will only demotivate him and say failure is harmful to him. Instead, be patient. Become his enthusiasm when you will only benefit from him. After the parent's parent-teacher meeting, don't praise your beloved too much in enthusiasm. Too much praise will make your child overconfident and will be harmful to his future. Apart from this, after the parent-teacher meeting, many students think that they will compare their children with others by telling their goodness. He will improve with Never do this, but move forward by improving the positive aspects of your child's personality.
( 1 topic - if your child is single no siblings, 2 topics - teen child hygiene, 3 topics, - make your child meet others to make social, 4 topics - Don't aspect too much your child, 5 topics - helicopter mood, 6 topic - PT Meeting be careful please )
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