Raising children is no less than austerity, especially the growing children, because they are thinking and priorities keep changing. In such a situation, many times they do not understand the words of their parents or there is a situation when the parents are always hurt. Even children go on the wrong path. Now the question arises what should be done in such a way that the children obey their words? By wishing for some tips you can make your children agree. These are the talking tips that you will not ignore. 
Scolding, not reprimanding. strictness is necessary with children, but there should not be power in the form of scolding. In such a situation, children become stubborn and they start hiding things from their parents. That's why adopt an attitude of friendship with children. This will make the child take his words seriously. He will not even be able to touch his words in today's time. Children must share their feelings with you.
Control, not judgment. Instead of controlling the child give some leeway. This task may seem difficult, but if you dare, everything will be fine. Let the child decide some things. 4 times. When your child shows the ability to make decisions, you will feel proud of him and the child will also feel comfortable. Just to do this, do not forget to explain to your children about right and wrong. After that, let them decide.
Just one word. Thank you. you, say thank you to the children. Children often mess up something or the other in such a situation. If he does the right and good work, then he must say thank you. Even if he takes his own bath and handset in the sun. Why not encourage you not to say that I do not want to see your volume on the floor again. You will live up to your expectations from this child also if you positively teach them.
Respect for thinking. Do not disrespect the Child's thinking and decisions in his teenage age remind in every time how responsible he is. He will learn slowly like we learn from our mistakes. Give him a chance to have more responsibility than this. Often we grow up. Start telling your kids what they are doing wrong. Let them take responsibility. Make them feel empowered. Teach them not to worry anymore if something is right or wrong. Talk to them about why it is happening. What do you think will be the result of this.
Appreciation opportunities. It is important to pay attention to what your child is doing well. Giving positive attention to good behavior can go a long way. It can help to put down your child's behavior. Along with this, some self-confidence will also increase. Take the time to fully listen to what the child has to say and agree when appropriate. Even if you disagree, tell him politely.
Try to let go, If anything being so angry is all the signs of a stubborn child. If you do not understand, then what to do. Somewhere today, while waiting for the difficulty, the parents are facing. And after stopping, it is spreading its feet fast. There was a time when the child used to get a lot of love from the parents at home. Used to get the love of grandparents, The lack of affection at Shade is making him lonely today, although some parents take all the work very responsible, Despite all the arrangements being busy, they take out time for the children. Understand their emotional needs, but such parents are very few.
Actually, it takes a lot of patience and understanding for children to raise them. Instead of obeying them by scolding and threatening them, things get worse. Senior scientists say that the number of today's parents is increasing who do not understand the need to give time to their children, citing their busy work. Most of the children do not even know where they work, or who works in the company. Because there is no communication with their parents. Slowly they feel isolated in such a situation. He gets angry about everything.
Do not argue If the child is stubborn and argues, then calm down. If you yourself argue with him, be careful not to spoil the matter by doing so. You have to try to keep listening to him and keep in mind to understand his point. If you develop the ability to listen, then gradually he too starts paying attention to you.
Screaming and scolding is not right. The child is angry, insisting on taking things or doing something. Do you get angry or end your anger immediately? Convince yourself that this is not right for your child. If you scream and bark louder, he is likely to be more insistent. He also starts shouting with U be calm and the matter goes in another direction. That is, if you say something to your child in a positive direction, calmly, he listens. If not in one thing. He will definitely listen next time.
There must be some rules. Every household has rules, but it is rare for everyone to follow those rules. If the child is stubborn, then you should not only make rules of the house but also clarify his needs. That is why rules are necessary. Why being disciplined is beneficial to the child. He understood all this with love. But yes, keeping discipline does not mean always keeping the embroidery in it at that time. It means that you yourself follow the rules set an example, and reassure the child that rules are good and necessary for development.
Nowadays, parenting is becoming like a task Parents have to change a lot to keep pace with the changing thinking of children and to make them understand the importance of life. Experts say that upbringing is the main formula. It is that before you can change the children, you have to change yourself. If the parents embrace those things in their lives, the children automatically start adopting those things. After all, earlier there was a number of need to teach parents parenting tips. The values of life in children used to come automatically as they grew up.
Some important things.
* If you are on the phone all day or gossiping then the kids will do the same. If you want him to spend more time on studies and sports, then go for a walk with him and do some activities.
* If you want the children to be able to live with you no matter what, don't hide things then spend time with them and behave like a friend. If you remain busy with the society and office, work for the whole day. Then the children will also be grossed in themselves.
* Before encouraging children to read a book, read the book yourself. You yourself take a book instead of gadgets in your hands. So the children will also do the same. You do the work that you want to teach them, the things they will see in front of you, they will learn.
* If you want the children to respect others, then you, then first you have to start giving respect to the children. Sweet, sweet, and them who have to wear and show those things themselves in order to create self-confidence.
Even in the scolding of the parents, care, and correction for the child is hidden. But children's mind is soft and not mature enough to understand this hidden love. Many times it also happens that parents tell their children every little thing, call them stupid, or threaten them in anger. Be careful if you do the same or the behavior can break the child's confidence. Your taunts can lead him Astray.
Confidence can break. It is often seen that parents call their children idiots or fools on small matters. By doing this again and again, the thing can sit inside the child that may be he is a fool. This can break his confidence. To understand this you have to learn from Einstein's mother. After he was expelled from Einstein's school, he would not tell him that he would change his school because of his weakness in his studies. Rather, it was said that he was not worthy of school but was enrolling. The result would be that Einstein became a wise man.
Stubbornness is not drama. Children often insist and insist on something. Actually, they do this with the privilege of being their child. But the parents say stop your drama. To call a child stubbornness a drama can be rude to him. Gradually, they become possessive about being their child and emotionally separate themselves from you.
Not threatening at all. Children often repeat the mistake in this way. Many times the parents tell them that enough is enough. They will not tolerate it or give any other kind of threat. It is true that for the improvement of the child, it is necessary to stop them. But you have to understand the difference between scolding and threatening. Repeated bullying will make children afraid of you or high things from you when this can be fatal for them.
Personal injury directly. It is seen that the parents make the child stand again and again. Users file language in style. Your bad words become an obstacle in the development of the child. This hurts the sentiments of the children. A sense of insecurity arises in them. An inferiority complex can fill them with a sense of rebellion. In both cases, the future of the child may be in the dark. That is why keep love hidden in your charity too.
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