*** Sony came to her in Law House after marriage. Everything was fine for a few days. And gradually it started to appear that they were conspiring against her. Whenever someone talks in a low voice, it seems that perhaps someone is being talked about. Whenever she came out of the house, she felt that someone was staring at her. As a result, she stopped talking to her family and neighbors. There started to be tension in her relationship. This could be the story of many women, not just Sony, who often feel things too deeply. In such a situation, she takes everything personally whether the thing belongs to them or not. In some women, it is congenital, and in some, it is seen after time or in some incidents There can be many reasons for this. This is possible if one did not get emotional support in childhood, or was blamed by parents without knowing the facts. A feeling arises in the child that ridicule is the sum of insult. If you have done something that you think is wrong and what people will say or think, you cannot even tell anything which fills the mind with self-consciousness and guilt Slowly or consciously today, it goes home. You feel that people are only criticizing you. You start finding the negative in the positive.
Understand what others say and explain your point of view to them. Avoid stress. Listen to famous music for this. Jokes apart take time for regular exercise and meditation. If the condition does not improve, consult a specialist psychiatrist Some women are victims of emotions or not. They simply lose confidence in themselves They may be more concerned about what others think, or may be a reason to take things personally Continuous failure in life also produces such symptoms. In such a situation, one should take inspiration from the ant and remain determined until success is achieved. Try to please everyone which is impossible. This can also make us take things personally because we feel like a failure. Apart from this, excessive stress and fatigue in life can also be a reason that you misunderstand someone's comments and take things personally. If someone's parents suffer from depression, then children can also become victims on occasion. And this also badly affects your thinking. Apart from this, a woman suffering from schizophrenia also feels something similar. Such women need medical counseling and treatment. How someone treats you, or their character is a reflection of personality that has nothing to do with you. Even if you feel like it, don't pay attention to what such people say. 2nd thing, don't try to please everyone, those who cooperate with full confidence should do the same.
*** You are married you and your husband are both working. It feels good if someone of the opposite sex comes into your relationship His views match. There are many good things that come together. Now it is necessary to think about how close to keep it Like every woman, there should be a limit for every kind of relationship You may be close to the core, but if it leads to an emotional affair, it won't take long for the relationship to deteriorate. So fix a price for the essentials. Everyone gets attached to the spouse's family, close relatives, and special friends. But if the same is done with a twin or someone other than family members then it can be considered an emotional affair. This means individual person started sharing certain things with him. It would be nice to talk to him day and night. If you like his company, then understand that you are in an emotional relationship with this partner. If so, then take care of your matrimonial life immediately because it is better to recover from such a relationship Behaviour.
You have to decide for yourself. Decide whether you want to let the family deteriorate or maintain it. Will your relationship be okay because of your partner's emotional affair? Of course, there is some difficulty in ending an emotional affair, but by understanding and controlling emotions distance can be maintained from such relationships. No one else can be virtuous to your life partner. You should keep this thing deep in your mind and even your life partner should not understand. Need to maintain respect and mutual harmony towards him. Create such an atmosphere that the life partner shares everything in his mind with you. Everyone has their own family, husband, children, parents, mother-in-law, father-in-law, brother, sister. These relationships are useful Connect with them yourself and consider your partner is responsible towards them. Taking care of recognition and respect in society also comes from the family Any wrong step can cause trouble for your family in society.
No matter how close someone is, do not share anything about your relationship with anyone else. Otherwise, the future may become difficult for both of them. When someone does not get complete, even if there is some estrangement from the life partner, still he should be satisfied in the relationship with him. Happiness should be achieved in your family. If there is a desire to get happiness from someone else, then there will be a loss in the future. It is true that you feel lonely, but if you try to cure it by having emotional affairs with someone, then it is wrong to overcome loneliness. Watch your favorite TV serial. Do a favorite thing. Read good books. Friendship with books will also increase your knowledge. Every relationship has limits. It is wise to keep it building any relationship out of emotions leads to loss. Be it a woman or a man, both should be loyal to the life partner. And this is possible only when you are your partner. Do not imagine the other in an emotional, emotional relationship There will be no emotional affair with any outsider. When both of you have set the balance and limits in every relationship, be loyal to your spouse in every situation.
*** There are many reasons for the fight between husband and wife, which we see, but some reasons are not visible to us One needs to think seriously to see and understand them. One reason for this can be your mental health as well. In today's lifestyle, problems like haste, anxiety, stress, and depression have increased. These disturbances affect mental health relationships. In such a situation, how can you help your partner? Excessive stress sometimes leads to insensitivity in relationships. Your partner is unable to talk about his feelings properly. You also start ignoring him. This is where the distance starts increasing in the relationship. On the contrary, you should try to understand the mood of your partner by listening carefully to his words. Make him feel that you are with him in any situation. Also, in conversation with him, remind him of the good moments of your relationship and tell him what you like about him.
If your partner's mental health is not good, your daily routine also gets affected. He may distance himself from you to avoid stress. If the person is going through a lot of stress, then he may have a problem of feeling more or less hungry. It is possible that he may try to Meditate but if he is not able to do so, he may get upset or seek solitude In such a situation, try to understand by analyzing his behavior. If the power work and expectations are high, then many responsibilities start to be felt. Situation. It is possible that your partner may be under stress If so, then there will not be only a workout with him and meditation. Discuss problems openly with your life partner. Giving him personal space, but leaving him more alone can make him a victim of depression surrounded by negative thoughts. If the problem in your relationship is increasing due to mental health being affected, then the help of an elder psychologist should be taken The advice of an elder psychologist will be helpful in improving your relationship. If the situation seems uncontrollable, then the advice of an elder in the family will be more beneficial to you than that of a professional. Mental maturity is a continuous process. Everyone is equally mature. This is not possible. Therefore, as is the mental state and mental strength of your life partner and expect his behavior To each other, gradually increase your society. Study good books for mental maturity. If you are feeling any problem, encourage him to share it and then solve it together. To keep the mind calm and happy, do yoga meditation.
*** It was only a few days before Tina's wedding. The atmosphere of the house started getting heavy. Her husband, Sanjay, keeps on thinking something all the time. It became his nature to keep worrying without giving clear answers to anything although everything was fine in business and home. tina was not able to understand why there was this sudden change in behavior. She handled the situations very carefully and created a positive atmosphere in the house In fact, thinking all the time and being worried are symptoms of overthinking. According to a recent study conducted by the University of Michigan, youth between 25 and 30 years think more. Similarly, he thinks too much about a certain situation. It's not about finding the solution to the problem Just analyse it for a long time. Due to this, they get stressed. And the family environment starts deteriorating. Each person has his own temperament. But if your husband thinks more than you must, means if you are an overthinker, then you need to show more understanding. There are many things that can trigger your partner's thinking habits. The reason behind their habit of overthinking could be fear, anxiety, physical health problems, past, or any other reason So you need to identify the trigger.
Special attention needs to be paid to communication with over overthinking husband. Talk openly with them on any topic. There should be no tension in the conversation. Discuss such a topic When you start talking openly with yourself, then the habit of over thinker will automatically start reducing Usually a person continues to think further until things become clear to him. Many times the wives ignore the words of the husband. In such a situation, if the husband is an overthinker, then the problem increases Therefore, listen to him carefully. In fact, something for the other is always going on in the mind of the overthinker. When you talk about any topic, you listen to him carefully, and all the unnecessary thoughts in his mind get removed. Then he becomes mentally ready to listen to you now. An overthinker thinks excessively about even the smallest things. If you say something to him, even jokingly, he takes it to heart. Get insecure about your relationship And they get upset. Therefore, try not to say anything that will hurt them. Usually, husband and wife are buried under the burden of household responsibilities Do not express love to each other. There should be freshness in the relationship. Keep expressing real love when you express your love to the overthinker. Or, more importantly, to you in the over thinker, he or gets a lot of pleasure. Then he has it think more about your love and his heart Becomes happy again and again. A good thought comes to their mind. If the husband over thinks the wife's responsibility increases, spend time with them to help them break their habit of overthinking. Do some activities at home that involve them. For example, engage them in watering the plants or pruning them. Prepare some dishes and take their health. Play loud music in the house so that their mind can remain active Take out time to take a walk together in the morning and evening.
*** . There is often a lack of harmony or estrangement on any other matter between the new couples Sometimes it reaches more than difference of opinions. In fact, when two people of different mental levels, manner, and upbringing in the family need mutual infection of manner takes place the new couple is unable to accept this manner ie change and first disagreements and then conflicts begin. If acceptance is increased by exercising a little patience, then these differences can be prevented from turning into conflicts. With the help of some tips, you can prevent the shadow of differences from falling on your relationship. In marriages, people often say that this does not happen in our country. But when two families meet, they also connect with each other's customs. In such a situation, try to understand mutual customs. Talk to each other about it. This will give you an idea of the problems that may arise in the future You will be able to deal with them when it is a matter of adopting a new tradition There will be no problem in accepting it if you understand it.
New couples should have only one priority. If someone says something for this to live the whole life, then listen to others Whether the marriage is between two different tasks or within the same caste, everyone's lifetime is different with the country. Time and circumstances Sanskar and customs also go somewhere and change according to the region In such a situation, by setting priorities in life, the possibility of opposition or discord will be greatly reduced. Everyone has their own lifestyle before marriage. A new family is formed after marriage. No responsibility is created That's why don't expect sudden changes right away. Understanding him with patience and the opportunity to learn and understand the behavior, customs, and traditions of the new family will make him feel that he cares about you. This will increase love and your partner will like your shortcomings. If the partner is from another culture and culture, then some compromises will have to be made in the beginning to create harmony. If you talk to your partner openly and politely about those topics you feel that they may create a discord between the two. All problems can be solved through dialogue. It is only through communication that you and your partner will be able to know each other better. Every person's rituals are different. Sometimes it comes to us when two people meet. Keep this ego under control. The couple remains devoted to each other. Enjoy every moment of the present, whether it is a new tradition or a new ritual, understand it and try to learn it Share quality time with each other, not always about winning. If you yourself try to win the partner of defeat, then life will be filled with John.
*** When you are in a relationship, you are ready to tolerate or do anything for the sake of your partner But the truth is that problems in relationships are normal. Many times relationships become so sour that we start behaving unpleasantly with our loved ones in this behaviour makes the relationship toxic. For example, trying to make your partner feel that their feelings are the problem. For example, constantly being overly dramatic about making them feel insecure and accusing us of being possessive or overly sensitive is often caused by our liars, misbehavior, failures, and even by ourselves. They put the blame for every small mistake on their partner and start attributing the root of every problem to him. The situation between a start coming in the relationship. The estrangement goes on increasing. If you cry or become sad as a result of misbehavior, and at such times your partner embarrasses you by saying that this is not your habit I know that's all you can do. How would you feel? Your partner will also find this kind of behavior bad. Don't shame in for his tears. Sensitivity or sadness.
Many people generalize all problems. For example Hey, what a big deal is this? This happens with everyone in etc. Such people do not pay attention to any problem of their partner. Apart from this, jealous misbehaves, venting out anger on things holding the partner responsible for incomplete tasks, evaluating the partners' success in parallel, and trying to make one appear mentally here. Today, there are such things by which you make your partner sad when fill is bitter in the relationship. Toxic relationships, sometimes become like gambling games, where, if you win once after losing 10 times, then there is hope that you will win in the future In this sense, some women hope that their partner will change, which gradually becomes their habit of unpleasant behavior. It is all-natural to have misunderstandings and some tension in the relationship. But you should be able to resolve it otherwise it can create a rift in the relationship. It takes both time and effort to mend relationships. Experts say that if there is continuous debate, then it is very important to start a conversation to find answers to the questions of disputes. For this, one should also be ready to listen to the partner along with this. You should also be able to present your points in a proper way. In any problem, it is necessary to go to its route before reaching the result. Why is the heart saying the same again and again that he is going through a problem? He himself is not going through any trauma, whether it has a solution or not. It is most important to consider these things, or it is necessary to know that the one who is being abused while living somewhere, in his state is not inviting anyone. Counseling is very important before reaching any result.
*** Tina started feeling stressed often whenever she used to talk to her husband, Anurag, about anything. The beginning was similar. But when it turned into an argument, As a result, Anurag went to the office getting angry, and Tina remained tense throughout the day. Gradually, their relationship started getting strained. Tina started to be apprehensive that this relationship might break. Then, for some reason, an elderly relative came to his house a few days ago and made his eyes understand the seriousness Explain to all three, and the result was that Anurag's relationship started filling with energy. Husband and wife is it normal to have arguments and differences in committees in any relationship Even the closest of friends should always agree with each other. This is not necessary. But when society turns into a debate, it starts playing havoc in relationships. Issues instead of arguments for the longevity of your relationship It is a pleasant welcome to have an open discussion about the committee. Ideological conflict is possible in any relationship. It is a part of a relationship because two people are unable or impossible to agree on everything Ideological differences sometimes also provide an opportunity to develop your understanding, or depending on whether you agree how easily you are able to accept differences, or how sensitively you raise a difficult issue.
Join the conversation as a good listener during the discussion. Listen carefully to what others say and understand. It is not necessary to give a promise immediately on everything. Make the other person feel what you say. Pay attention to his body language to understand this The discussion reached its conclusion naturally. For this, always ask open-ended questions and involve yourself in the discussion, not as a judge, but as a collaborator. Now you regret when the bird packed your farm to avoid the situation. Do not do anything that you will regret later and remember that you have always a team with your partner. Regardless of the committee, the relationship is always more important than any other issue. Don't shy away from the issue During an argument, always remember what your discussion was about. Accused each other. Start the argument from your own experience instead of making accusations. Also, discuss which problem of the couple and how it made you feel. To explain this to your partner, your partner will try to understand a little what punishment you want, or how you want the problem to be solved immediately If it's ok are you during a conversation? When you reach a turn, take a break for some time. After that time, when both are in a better mood, have the conversation again just or always keep in mind that the discussion is taking place to solve the problem except losing in relationships, sometimes losing intentionally, is also a victory. Secondly, understand the point of view of your spouse. Instead of winning over each other, argue to win over the problem. Avoid thinking that the other side may also be important and may be wrong. Control your ego. Try to satisfy each other. Problem solved together.
*** It was believed that women were not interested in politics, but women were getting educated. They are taking an interest in politics along with other issues Such problems arise when there is a disagreement between husband and wife under the same roof on some political issue, party, or ideology This disagreement sometimes becomes the causeway of conflict. Experts say that this problem can be solved through healthy communication and sensible efforts Many times, by talking to the partner, we keep the disagreement in mind by listening to their political family, or social views. In such a time, it is necessary to express your thoughts easily because suppressed thoughts become a mountain of the volcano of mourning and bitterness. When this volcano rises, its impact also falls on the relationship. Small things often turn into quarrels. Is important to respect each other's views and opinions, rather than look down on others for their views. Everyone can have different views, and they should be respected.
No action should be taken hastily without listening to or understanding the whole point of the conversation. Listen to the entire matter with patience and understand it only then reach a conclusion Many times we make assumptions. Things are understood according to him. It gets worse only when we start taunting or daunting each other on everything But at the same time, it is necessary to accept the views unless you understand here that they also have their own ideology. Tension will remain in the relationship. It is not a big deal to have similarities in thoughts, but you never know when differences of opinion turn into differences of opinion and fights. Do not bring your eyes between each other This makes things more complicated. Dragging things only creates bitterness, and it keeps on increasing day by day. Be it a partner male or female neutrality in thoughts is wrong. One should respect each other's views. The male partner should welcome the political ideology of the woman. Similarly, women's participation in politics is very low. In such a situation, if a woman is taking an interest in politics then it should be a matter of welcome.
( 1. Why do you take it to heart? , 2- husband and wife together good don't take third in your life, 3- understand your life partner, 4- it's overthinking this? 5- New couple understands each other, 6-listen to your life partner, 7- Please talk to each other, 8- I am in politics do you ?)
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